Happily Ever After (with chocolate and hazelnuts)

March is a month of many celebrations in our little family. David and I were married on the 10th, and his birthday falls on the 25th. It’s also, in this part of the world, the beginning of my favorite season: spring.
This March felt especially monumental in our lives: David turned 30, and we celebrated 6 years of marriage, the last one where it will be just the two of us living in our house. It’s funny how the expectation surrounding the birth of a child makes everything seem like such a big deal; maybe it’s just the hormones, but I have felt a sense of urgency to mark occasions by celebrating with more fervor than usual (and anyone who knows me will tell you that I am even in my non-pregnant state an occasion kind of girl).
David was not thrilled about the prospect of turning 30, so I put that celebration on the backburner for a while and concentrated on our anniversary. Usually, I cook a romantic dinner and wear my wedding dress for the evening. Silly, I know, and not very possible this year due to this person protruding from the front of my body. And, I didn’t feel much like spending such a beautiful weekend inside cooking either, so we came up with a new plan. David orchestrated an afternoon picnic and afterwards, we decided to head out to see a movie (neither of us could remember the last time we actually watched one in the theater).
My only job was to come up with a dessert we could have when we got back home with our take-out, and it I knew it had to be an occasion-worthy one — one of the traditional gifts for six years of marriage is sugar, after all.
Over the Christmas holidays, we had the chance to meet and visit with our good friend Tee’s brother, Griff, who also loves to cook. Over Sunday lunch, we got on the topic of cookbooks. When I told him I had just been given Marcella Hazan’s Essentials of Classic Italian Cooking, he immediately recommended her recipe for a dessert called a diplomatico. The suggestion stuck with me, and when I wanted something special to make for David, Hazan’s recipe is where I turned first. I altered it a little, adding a pronounced hazelnut flavor in with the chocolate, but I stuck with her basic formula.
The end result was both lovely and delicious; the chocolate filling is light in texture but heavy on flavor (especially if you use really good chocolate) and the cake turns velvety soft under the influence of its coffee-liqueur bath. You could make a fancy chocolate frosting to go on top, but a simple layer of whipped cream was all it needed, in my opinion. After you have the cake made and cooled, the dessert comes together very quickly; the set-up time it needs makes it the perfect thing to make the day before you need it.
In fact, it was so good that after it served as a celebratory sign of the six years I’ve been married to the love of my life, I convinced David to let me throw a small party in honor of the thirty years he has been alive. He agreed, as long as I promised to make this cake again, a sure sign that this was a dessert worthy of both occasions.

Chocolate Hazelnut Diplomatico
7 t. sugar, divided
4 eggs
6 ounces good, semisweet chocolate (extra, for garnish)
2/3 of a baked pound cake
1/3 cup frangelico (hazelnut liqueur)
1 1/4 cups very strong coffee (I used hazelnut flavored coffee)
1 cup heavy whipping cream
Toasted hazelnuts, for garnish
First, make the chocolate filling. Separate the eggs, and beat the yolks with 1 t. of the sugar until pale yellow. Melt the chocolate in the top of a double boiler. Pour the chocolate very slowly into the yolks, whisking constantly until thoroughly incorporated. Beat the whites on high until stiff peaks form. Stir a couple of spoonfuls of the whites into the chocolate mixture to lighten; then, fold the remaining whites in with a rubber spatula or wooden spoon very gently, being careful not to stir the air out of them. Set aside.
Next, line a baking dish or deep bowl with a damp dishcloth or cheesecloth, letting the edges hang over. Mix the coffee, frangelico, and 5 t. of the sugar in another shallow dish. Slice the pound cake thinly, and dip each slice quickly into the coffee mixture. Line the cloth-lined dish with a layer of cake slices, making sure to fill in all gaps (the wet cake smooshes well, so don’t be afraid to press small pieces into any holes). Spread a layer of the chocolate mixture on top of the cake. Repeat with remaining cake and chocolate, finishing with cake. How many layers you get will depend on the size of your container. I used a 4-quart round bowl and had 4 layers of cake (3 layers of filling). Cover the top of the dessert with the cloth and refrigerate for at least a few hours, preferably overnight.
Just before serving, whip the cream with a teaspoon of sugar until soft peaks form. Turn the cake out of the container onto a platter or cake stand. Frost the sides and top with whipped cream; garnish with chopped nuts and shaved chocolate.
–Adapted from Marcella Hazan’s Essentials of Classic Italian Cooking

April 7th, 2007 at 4:04 pm
Most unusual but reading the recipe makes it sound like wonderful flavor and the photo make it look stunningly beautiful.
Happy Celebration Days!!
April 7th, 2007 at 5:01 pm
This is a beautiful cake! Glad you posted this. Hope you’re feeling well and that your celebrations were wonderful. Have a happy Easter!
April 8th, 2007 at 6:25 am
So glad to hear that you, David and baby are doing well. And, obviously, eating well too!!! This looks divine. I may try to get my gumption up to make it. Have a wonderful, blessed and glorious Easter (it is my favorite holiday/celebration of the entire year). My Mother is feeling better so we are having a total of 13 for dinner, lots of “orphans”, etc. So if I survive the kitchen I may try this. Best to you — and thank you for the post. -Jonathan
April 15th, 2007 at 12:01 pm
Happy Belated Anniversary, Jennifer! Kudos to you for being able to fit into your wedding dress even after 6 years of being married (even though you couldn’t wear it this year)!!!
And of course I am so very excited for the little bundle that will soon be making its way into your lives.
Beautiful cake!
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April 27th, 2007 at 5:55 pm
Happy Birthday (to the hubby), Anniversary (to you both), and Birth Day (coming up)! This dessert looks divine and if I hadn’t just had a kid I’d be all over that recipe. Best of luck in your upcoming days!
May 6th, 2007 at 4:17 am
April is a big month in our house since two of my children share the same birthday (born 15 years apart!), and I am very much like you, I am big on occasions. In fact, that is why I started my blog, to encourage people to use food to make everyday occasions that bring family and friends together. With a baby on the way there will be more and more of those opportunities… Congratulations and enjoy!
May 31st, 2007 at 12:45 pm
I hope that everything is going well. Are you into your summer?