A Deck, a Dessert, and a Weekend Date with My Family

Last year was insanely busy for my family. In order, from youngest to oldest, the four children in our clan graduated from high school and started college, graduated from college and started law school, got married, and finished one graduate program and entered another. All of us except one moved. My parents, after trotting swiftly from one major life event to another, suddenly found themselves with an empty nest.
Needless to say, it has been a year of adjustment for all of us. The hardest thing for David and me is to know how to negotiate holidays, how to see everyone we need to see without completely wearing ourselves out, and how to mesh quality time with people who matter a great deal to us with our new lives in a new, not-so-near place.
So, when my entire family loaded up to come down for a visit for my birthday in June, I was ecstatic. It was the first time all of us (except my sister-in-law who was badly missed!) had gathered in the same place without a million other people to see, places to go, and things to do. It was just us, and I loved it.
I floated the idea of building a deck in our backyard over Christmas holidays, and my sweet father (who is a builder) immediately offered for him and my brothers to come help. One hot, sticky, 14-hour day later, a perfect structure jutted out from my back door, exactly as I had envisioned it.
To celebrate and to say thank you, I spent the day with my mom and sister preparing food. During the day, we made BLTs for lunch with fresh summer tomatoes, salsa to snack on, and supplied plenty of water, Gatorade, and, as the afternoon wore on, beer for the crew. For dinner, we boiled shrimp, roasted potatoes with rosemary, and tossed together a big salad with crusty bread.
My favorite part of the meal, besides the fact that the people I love were sitting at the table with me eating it, was dessert. For as long as I can remember, my mom has made this peach dessert for my birthday. It’s funny now–Cool Whip, Jello, and cream cheese are not ingredients that regularly find their way into my kitchen, but this dessert screams summer to me, and it’s one of my favorite ways to enjoy fresh peaches.
It’s a quintessential southern layer dessert in many ways–buttery crust, creamy sweet middle, and jello and fruit top, but it’s the combination that makes it so divine. The buttery crust crunches with chopped pecans and provides the perfect salty canvas for the sweet peaches and tangy cream cheese.
We ate about half of the 9×12 pyrex dish the night after the deck-building. Over the course of the next week or so, I proceeded to eat the rest of it nearly by myself, for breakfast, mid-morning snack, just like I did when I was a teenager still living in my parents’ house.
Some things I guess we never grow out of. Favorite desserts and the love of family are two that come to mind every time I step outside my back door.
Mom’s Peach Dessert
1 cup flour
1 stick butter, diced
1/2 cup pecans, chopped finely, plus extra for serving
2 8-ounce packages cream cheese, softened
1 cup Cool Whip plus extra for serving
1 1/4 cup powdered sugar
1/2 cup peach flavored Jell-O
2 T. corn starch
1 cup sugar
2 cups water
4 cups peeled, sliced peaches (about 10-12 whole peaches)
For the crust: Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Pulse the flour, butter, and pecans together in a food processor until crumbly. Press the mixture into the bottom of a 9×13 casserole. Bake for 15 minutes, or until golden brown. Cool completely.
For the top: Stir together the Jell-O and corn starch. Bring the water to a boil, and add the Jell-O mixture. Stir until dissolved; add the sugar and continue to cook and stir until the mixture is completely clear. Turn off the heat and set aside.
For the cream cheese layer: Whip the cream cheese, Cool Whip, and powdered sugar until thick and creamy.
To assemble: Once the crust is cool, spread the cream cheese layer evenly on top. Arrange the peach slices in a single layer on top of the cream cheese, and pour the Jell-O mixture over. Cover and refrigerate for at least a few hours, preferably overnight. If you need it to set up in a hurry, the freezer will do it in about 2 hours, sometimes less. To serve, cut into squares and top with a dollop of Cool Whip and a sprinkle of chopped pecans.
If you’re looking for a last-minute Fourth dessert, this one feeds a lot of people. Happy Independence Day, everyone!
If you happen to be looking for me, I’m likely to be in the hammock or the swing pictured below. Dad, Jason, and David, you are my heroes!

July 4th, 2006 at 8:18 am
i’m so jealous - that deck looks wonderful!
can’t wait to come see it…
July 4th, 2006 at 8:26 am
What a great family you have! I love the porch and swing. Looks like a great place to enjoy the nice weather, when it’s not too hot! I actually went to elementary school with your brother (?) David until he moved to Hillcrest. Also, my mom grew up with your Aunt Prissy and was good friends with her. BTW, I love your weekly menus. My mom uses that, and I’m sure I will too when I have someone other than myself to cook for!
July 4th, 2006 at 11:58 am
So what’s with you food-blogger types? From what I’ve seen ya’ll are, as a group, about the nicest damn people on earth, with great families. Nice to be reminded there are a lot of good people out there. Another commonality: childhood treats involving Cool Whip. Could there be a connection?
July 5th, 2006 at 6:53 am
It sounds like you have a lovely and adorable family. Just like you! And this dessert is classic! Every once and awhile we have to go back to those family favourites … I’m so glad you got to spend your birthday with the people you love most!
July 6th, 2006 at 5:41 am
The deck looks fabulous!
July 6th, 2006 at 9:52 am
I love your family. I wish I could toodle around your backyard with you. Some big pots of mums would be nice this fall on that deck. Love you aunt prissy
July 6th, 2006 at 7:49 pm
well you know when I was living with the fam awhile ago I volunteered to make this dessert for Lizzards birthday. I was in Jackson and between Grandmother, MF and Aunt Prissy there were 3 very different renditions of this peach treat. Mine came out with a great crust, a very liquid peachy, jellooee, APRICOT JAM thing and some very good peaches. oh yeah and the cool whip. tasted pretty good but we could have used some straws…the deck looks fabulous. I go to NY Saturday for the food show…wish you were coming you would be in heaven!!! love you aunt em
July 7th, 2006 at 3:52 pm
The dessert looks yummy! The deck is a beautiful addition to your home!!!
July 25th, 2006 at 8:11 pm
I haven’t been able to get online for a while. What a treat to read about our “family deck weekend”.
I saw your friend’s recipe for a Mojito. The New York version must be different than the California Mojito. While your Dad and I were in Napa Valley I had a very refreshing drink. It was made with mint and club soda, simple syrup and Saki.
Can’t wait to see youall next week.
Love,
Mom
August 24th, 2007 at 8:12 am
[…] Perhaps it’s because peaches remind me so much of summer — after mornings at the pool, Mom would often drive us over to Landrum’s produce stand to buy the freshest ones our small town had to offer. It could also be that a version of peaches and cream has been my standard birthday dessert for as many years as I can remember. Whatever the reason, my passion for peaches has not wavered over the years, and one of the most welcome signs of summer here in Louisiana for me are the peaches that appear on Mr. Buddy Miller’s table at our Saturday farmer’s market. […]